Bonding at feeding time
You and your baby share a deep connection. When your baby cries, you have an urgent need to soothe her. When she’s calm, you are at peace. And when she’s alert, you are fascinated. Feeding times offer excellent opportunities to make this bond even stronger.
Bonding is important for a child’s development. It helps her learn how to form intimate relationships and feel a sense of security and self-esteem. Physically the bonding experience helps a baby grow and thrive. There are many wonderful ways to encourage bonding.
Nourishing the bond
Breastfeeding offers the special closeness of skin-to-skin contact that nurtures the unique bond between you and your baby. It builds trust and reassures your baby that she’s safe and secure in your arms. Talking to your baby as she feeds also is an important part of the bonding experience.
The sound of your voice is consoling. Remember that your little one has spent nine months cuddled inside of you, and your familiar voice is soothing to her ears. Stroke her head, arms, and legs lightly while she feeds. Gaze into her eyes—she enjoys looking back at you. Your baby’s comfort helps guarantee that feedings will be relaxed, joyful experiences for both of you.
Did you know?
A 1-month-old can’t see very clearly beyond 12 inches, so try to position toys less than 1 foot from her head.