Sex During Pregnancy
Sex during pregnancy isn’t harmful for most women. In a normal pregnancy, the fetus is well protected by the walls of the uterus and the cushion of amniotic fluid. Plus, a thick mucus plug seals the cervix and fends off infection.
Changes in your sex life
Knowing that sex during pregnancy is safe doesn’t necessarily mean it will be the same. Physical, hormonal, and emotional changes will make your libido more erratic while you're expecting.
Those early weeks of feeling nauseated and exhausted probably won't do much to fuel your sexual appetite. Interest may pick up in the second trimester, but later on, as you experience changes in your body shape, it may take more creativity to enjoy sex and find a comfortable position.
For some women, no worries about contraceptives, periods, and PMS, along with an increased blood flow to the pelvic region, make them feel more aroused. And your partner may find your fuller breasts and growing body more attractive than ever. This time of closeness can make sex more fulfilling and physically prepare your pelvic muscles for delivery.
Medical considerations
Sexual intercourse may be a concern if you're diagnosed with any of the following conditions:
- History or threat of miscarriage
- History or signs of pre-term labor
- Unexplained vaginal bleeding
- Sexually transmitted disease (yours or your partner's) that hasn’t cleared up
- Placenta previa
- Incompetent cervix
- Multiple fetuses
- Leaking of amniotic fluid or ruptured amniotic membranes
It’s important to note that during orgasm, the womb will contract more than usual, but these aren't the same level of contractions associated with labor. Although some women may feel cramps or have light spotting after sex, contact your doctor about any contractions, pain, bleeding, or discharge that seem to continue after sex.
Sex in the later stages of pregnancy
During the final weeks of your pregnancy, many experts agree that sex won't trigger labor unless your body is ready. But if your baby is overdue, nipple stimulation and intercourse could help induce labor.
If your sexual activity is restricted for medical reasons or limited due to your own discomfort, talk with your partner about other ways to keep the romance alive such as a massage or bath. Together, you can find alternatives that will help maintain intimacy during your pregnancy.